Deleting People on FB

The idea of deleting people on facebook once you are not friends in real life anymore seems a bit ridiculous to me seeing as the majority of the people you are friends with on facebook probably aren't your friends in real life anyways. Although, I see how being deleted as a friend on facebook, or deleting a friend on facebook (in a spiral of anger) might be temporarily satisfying, I think that it brings two problems to the table. One, if  you become friends again in a month you have to make the real awkward move of re-requesting them as a friend. Two, if you don't become friends again in a month and you become curious as to what is happening in their life (and don't say you wont be because clearly if it was so heartbreaking you had to delete them as a facebook friend then you clearly care) you can't "creep" on them. Therefore, I think the idea of deleting people on facebook once you have already committed to a facebook relationship is a poor decision! But do what you will people its a free country for a reason!

Design

Art Vs. Design

What's the difference ?? 

http://www.aiga.org/art-vs-design/ Here is an article I read on "AIGA"regarding this comparison. 

The question is "Is the only component separating art and design the client?" 

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,2042349,00.html

this is a great piece!

Zach Wahls Speaks About Family

A question about sex and relationships.

In a relationship there are two basic componants: sex and "the relationship" part. What do you do if one is missing? Better question: what do you do when one is missing, but the other one is front and center! Now being in a relationship where there is not a strong connection (relationship part), but really good sex, is almost always considered "just sex". But what happens when there is a really good relationship, but no sex? Is it considered "just friends"?

Let Music Define Us

I have decided there is a song for every possible situation you could be in (regarding relationship status). I believe that is why girls connect with Taylor Swift so well, her songs allow you to put yourself in the situation that she is singing about, and most girls can relate to them. Which brings me to my next point, songs that you can relate to us are often songs that we gravitate more twoards. Now this is not true with all songs, you might like a song that is "a club banger" and yeah you probably can relate to "everybody in the club getting tipsy" but that's not what I am talking about. I am talking about the music that defines you, the songs that you listen to and they hit a weak spot, and you think "I know exactly how that feels". So, when you have a song that you can relate to think about the ending of that song, what is the turn out of that situation? Does Taylor Swift's lyrics become another option when making your decisions? Should we let music literally define us?