A question about sex and relationships.

In a relationship there are two basic componants: sex and "the relationship" part. What do you do if one is missing? Better question: what do you do when one is missing, but the other one is front and center! Now being in a relationship where there is not a strong connection (relationship part), but really good sex, is almost always considered "just sex". But what happens when there is a really good relationship, but no sex? Is it considered "just friends"?

Let Music Define Us

I have decided there is a song for every possible situation you could be in (regarding relationship status). I believe that is why girls connect with Taylor Swift so well, her songs allow you to put yourself in the situation that she is singing about, and most girls can relate to them. Which brings me to my next point, songs that you can relate to us are often songs that we gravitate more twoards. Now this is not true with all songs, you might like a song that is "a club banger" and yeah you probably can relate to "everybody in the club getting tipsy" but that's not what I am talking about. I am talking about the music that defines you, the songs that you listen to and they hit a weak spot, and you think "I know exactly how that feels". So, when you have a song that you can relate to think about the ending of that song, what is the turn out of that situation? Does Taylor Swift's lyrics become another option when making your decisions? Should we let music literally define us?

The Flower Petal Method

He loves me. He Loves me not.

When I was younger the flower petal method seemed to work great. You just pull the petals off until the last petal is left and whatever answer you get, is what you go with. However, these days it seems much more tricky then pulling petals off a flower. It seems as though letting a flower decide your destiny might be easier than deciding yourself. So, when it comes time to make decisions in life which is smarter, more reliable, and safer, the flower method, or our own hearts?